Sewing New Memories into the Fabric of Life
Acts 1:23So they nominated two men: Joseph called Barsabbas (also known as Justus) and Matthias. 24Then they prayed, â€œLord, you know everyoneâ€™s heart. Show us which of these two you have chosen 25to take over this apostolic ministry, which Judas left to go where he belongs.â€ 26Then they cast lots, and the lot fell to Matthias; so he was added to the eleven apostles.
Bitter-sweet day yesterday. Natalie had aÂ field trip to our local baseball stadium (yes, she held my hand the whole time). It was so much fun, but something about the trip caused me great sorrow as well. When we first moved to this state, I painted a mural of the ballpark for Jonathan’s room. The last time I was at a game was last year for my anniversary while in the midst of planning Jonathan’s funeral. His birthday is on Mother’s Day this year. Being at the ballpark brought all of those things to the surface.
I know from other survivors that this is quite common and that it is important to sew new memories into the fabric of my life, so I’m glad that I went. When Jonathan was little we brought himÂ to a game early for autographs. He got a helmet and his catcher’s mitt signed. That night he slept with the glove on his hand and the helmet on his head. It was such a sweet image in my mind.
The disciples were fresh off the crucifixion and resurrection.Â Jesus spent forty days preparing them for ministry, Christ ascends to heaven, and now what? Now they pray!Â Now they select a new apostle to replace Judas. Now they wait for the Holy Spirit. Much of this year has been spent learning to wait. God’s instructions were clear to me; he has been removing stumbling blocks, teaching me patience, healing my anger and replacing it with compassion. Showing me that his way is the best way. May each of you be open to the new thoughts, new memories, and new experiencesÂ that God wants to sew into the fabric of your life.
Lord, I praise you for this amazing crowd of witnesses! I give you this day. Do with it what you will. Amen